the sign of life is in your face. He who responds to it will feel secure and
fit. As when, in a friendly place, sure of hearty care, a traveler gladly
waits. Though it may not taste like food and he may not see the fare or hear a
sound of plates, how endless it is and how good!
Tzu, The Way of Life
of the most fearsome and useful social inventions of all time is marriage.
Many men routinely tremble at the prospect of limiting their love horizons to
just one woman. Marriage represents a serious form of deprivation to your ASS
and it will usually try to avoid this unpleasant obligation. Marriage is the
non-local tutor that many men fear the most, and even though some of us have a
sense that we need to get married at some point in our lives, we are
frequently not sure what to do with this knowledge. Now it is not true to say
that all men fear marriage, but it is one of those things that in our culture
is almost universally attributed more to men than to women. Women seem to
intuitively understand the utility of marriage and usually work diligently on
the man of their choice, until all opposition is broken.
Marriage is commonly thought of as a ceremony performed by a minister
or civic functionary, but this is an incomplete view. The minister, priest or
rabbi is only a witness to a non-local oath that is engendered by the couple
itself. What is unique about marriage is that it is a public sharing of a
private bond. But what does this bond consist of? Promises and covenants are
only part of something much larger. If we think of men and women in terms of
the positive and negative charges of a magnet, then we begin to understand how
the two sexes create energy just by being in each other's company. Electrons
flow when the positive and negative pole of a magnet or a battery are brought
into proximity with one another or linked. Marriage is taking this positive
and negative energy exchange and subsequent flow to a higher level. Couples
who simply choose to live together enjoy some of the benefits of this DICK
exchange but not all. Marriage brings an extra set of benefits that living
together does not.
The Way of the Tao
Tao, in its ultimate sense, is the Way of God; to be connected to the Tao is
to be connected to God in a higher dimensional way. Rationally speaking, it
can be argued that if God exists then it would be inconceivable for He, She or
It not to wish the highest good for humankind. This highest good, described
from a Confucian perspective, is the Way of Li (the moral duties of the
individual to society which are rooted in the Tao) and would be described as
moral and spiritual virtue from the Western perspective of Natural Law.
The Way of the Tao is easier to understand, if we bear in mind
Aristotle's notion that all things seek to imitate the perfection of the
Unmoved Mover. This perfection causes all things to want to be like God. This
desire to imitate what is better is at the root of all personal transformation
and is the lodestone of the soul. Concepts such as the Tibetan Kun Long
(the standing up of the soul in its own moral consciousness) or Heidegger's Dasein,
which is non-existent Existence (doesn't exist out of any matrix) reflecting
on its own derived existence as soul and signification in time and eternity,
are ultimately reflections of a profound desire on the part of all things to
imitate their Source. We can change for the better because we are called from
all eternity to imitate that which is perfect and free of all suffering and
The way of the Superluminal Tao, Unmoved Mover (if you prefer that term) or
Divine and Eternal Entity is the royal road to consciousness, and it is
completely free. There are no hidden charges but you must discover what it is
you must imitate before you can actually imitate. This discovery of what is
imitable in Divine Law is the basis of all Natural Law. The codified aspect of
the law, or as William Blake describes it, the religion of Caiaphas, is not
the Way, it is merely a reflection of the Way. Despite their imperfections,
natural law constructs such as the Ten Commandments and religious codes of
conduct, other than direct revelation, point in the right direction!
Marriage Connects You to the Way of the Tao
proper marriage is one in which a couple finds themselves in the presence of
an invitation from the Way. It is nonverbal and many couples find themselves
truly surprised at what the Way offers them. How many times have you heard
that: "He or she was not what I expected but it has been wonderful none the
less." One individual described his experience of this invitation as a dream
about an enormous green wave. He knew implicitly that he had the choice to
take a ride or not to. He chose to surf the wave and married a woman who
completely changed his life and the lives of many others in the process.
The true meaning of marriage is found in the non-local sharing of the
life energy of another, and in the acceptance and forging of a different
future as a new entity open to the non-locality of the Tao. Marriage is the
public declaration of this sharing. This is why some marriages are such a
headache. If the life energy of Yin and Yang cannot be properly shared then
there can be no real marriage. Given the generative powers of the soul,
marriage without children may involve a restriction of its capabilities and
may be destructive, if its life energy has no other outlets such as
commitment to political, religious, and social causes, adoption and
volunteerism in general.
Marriage is really a form of channeling—you literally allow the
future to come through you. Marriage is not just about companionship and who
pays the bills or who makes the meals. We get so focused on the biology and
the social mechanics that we forget that each child connects us non-locally to
thousands of generations and events in both the past and the future. That
future has an impact in the here and now as the core-self will make
adjustments in the present for futures you cannot imagine.
Marriage should also not be viewed as only a license to have socially acceptable sex. Marriages of this sort are really not much better than arrangements made to live together. Remember that the life force is constantly seeking its own balance and truth. Permissive sex, poor marriage choices and casual habits of masturbation will derail your efforts in this regard.
Happens When Two People Make Love
The exchange of Chi in sex involves far more than just screwing. Have you ever
noticed how sex frequently depletes men and seems to enliven women? Imagine
this: you have just finished having wildly satisfying sex and you are ready to
pass out and—your wife or girlfriend is eager for energetic conversation and
afterplay! Where do you think she gets this sudden burst of energy? She gets
it from you—she just received your Yang energy! Women transform a man's
local Yang Chi energy and give some of it back to him in the form of non-local
Yin Chi. The ego boosting, moral support and character influencing that women
are rightly famous for comes from this most elemental of energy exchanges.
This is why copulation is ecologically superior to masturbation. You get some
of your energy back!
The real reason that marriage is one excellent form of Dick Management
is that Chi requires channels to transmit itself properly. Your life energy
and that of your spouse creates an interlocking directory of psychic channels.
Your life energy flows into her and she takes some of that energy and gives it
back to you non-locally. Practitioners of yoga refer to this female/male
energy conversion principle as shakti.
Shakti is the female aspect of Dimensionally Interactive Cyber-Kinetics.
Shakti creates binding energy in relationships. This is why if a woman gives
up on a relationship it is really over. If you create shakti bonds without
marriage, both partners can give away more of themselves than they may be
aware of. This is one reason that break-ups with long-standing sexual partners
are problematic—you have already created non-local bonds and channels that
are not so easily dissolved. Dividing the furniture and deciding who gets the
cat is the tip of a huge iceberg. This may be a source of much pain, and
certainly may distract you from your life path.
Two persons joined in marriage or sex become an entity that alters the future
fabric of quantum reality. The ankle bone is connected to the leg bone up and
down the time-lines of past, present and future. Additional energy is created
by the merging of Yin and Yang through the Dimensionally Interactive
Cyber-Kinetics of love. The commitment of marriage involves an act of will
from both parties that enables them to merge. Without the commitment, there is
no merging, and no real energy for personal transformation.
One of the core tasks of all human beings is to find an appropriate marriage
partner and to have an improved moral, spiritual and intellectual package to
bring to that relationship. The failure to do this, or to abuse this core
task, will result in many deviations from the future that is calling to you.
Remember, your soul knows the future as part of the quantum continuum.
Discipline and self-reflection are required to know and discover consciously
those things that the core-self already knows implicitly.
for past transgressions sexual or otherwise. Don't worry about how much time
has passed. Ask for forgiveness.
to apologize for present transgressions. Don't let the sun go down on your
anger, as they say.
spouse or lover that you love them because you or they may not wake up in the
morning. Life is a gift.
married and say yes to children. They are a gift.
yourself some new underwear.